First it begins with you. First you fall head over heels in love with the girl next door or the man in your office. Next, you make a humane effort to meet that person and get acquainted. But how did you fall in love with this lovely creature in the first place? And can you really be sure that you have what it takes to make someone fall in love with you? You can do a lot of personal introspection and see if you can unearth your deepest thoughts and feelings.
After that, and some more of your own interesting reading and research, you could learn still more about love and its machinations. You may already know this from experience; love is really quite a complex matter. Not everyone falls in love just like that. Sometimes love takes years to grow on you. On other occasions, and it seems to be happening a lot more these days, there’s a practical focus on physical love, leaving the matter of deeper, spiritual love for a later time for when the mind and body has matured to such a degree that it is able to practice higher love.
A deeply contemplative mystic may just be experienced enough in matters related to the higher powers of love. She might just be able to give you a few naturalistic lessons on love, based on her religious beliefs and practice. Once a good understanding has been reached, she may be more than willing to cast a magic love spell over the boy or girl that you still believe you are deeply in love with. The spell may be a success, but only if you believe that it’s going to work.